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      <image:caption>Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor Certified Sex Therapist Perinatal Mental Health - Certified Pronouns: She/Her/Hers Amy ( Freier ) Moran, LCPC, CST, PMH-C is an AASECT-Certified Sex Therapist, Licensed Clinical Professional Counselor, Perinatal Mental Health specialist, and the owner of Spark Chicago Therapy. She has years of extensive clinical experience in relationship and sex therapy, addressing common goals including enhancing the experience of sex and sexuality, improving empathy and emotional connection in a relationship, and reducing relational conflict. She also holds a special interest in working with the perinatal population, helping individuals and couples process relationship and sexual changes and transitions before, during and after childbirth. As an LGBTQIA+-, kink- and non-monogamy-affirming therapist, Amy works with individuals and couples experiencing sexual desire discrepancies, sexual functioning concerns, genito-pelvic pain, premarital counseling, and the overall improvement and revitalization of intimacy and sexual satisfaction.</image:caption>
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      <image:caption>Master of Science in Marriage &amp; Family Therapy Pronouns: She/Her/Hers Corin Garcia, MSMFT, is passionate about helping individuals and couples embrace their authentic self and spark play in their sexual relationships. As she walks alongside her clients, they can expect to nurture change from exploration of deeper emotions and vulnerabilities. She has found this work to create a healing experience for clients of all backgrounds, and particularly helpful for those clients who were socialized to not be in touch with their emotions. Corin welcomes various identities, dynamics, and sexual practices that lie outside of dominant culture, especially individuals or couples that identify with or are curious about BDSM/kink/fetish. Her other interests in sex therapy include building intimate connection, sexual difficulties, desire discrepancies, sex workers, and sexual shame. Corin also has experience with family of origin trauma, male identifying populations, aging, and life transitions. Corin adopts an Integrative Systemic Therapy approach because she believes therapy is not a one size fits all experience. This approach considers the many relationships and systems that influence us inside and outside of the therapy room. Through a collaborative, warm, and non-judgmental approach, Corin brings in therapeutic theories and practices from attachment theory, Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), Internal Family Systems (IFS), and Gottman Method. She merges somatic activities such as mindfulness and mind-body practices, to help clients explore and embrace all parts of themselves. Corin’s passion and curiosity for knowledge serves as an ongoing process throughout her journey as a clinician.</image:caption>
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